Patterns That Keep Coming Back

SPEAKER_03 0:06

Dear listeners, you know there's a pattern to your life that you might not see yet. The same challenges appearing again and again in your life. Uh, maybe you can also say that the same feelings surfacing at different times. So the question comes is what if those patterns were not random? What if they were kind of actually part of a map? A blueprint that you have been carrying since the day you were born. Possible, right? So today we are exploring how the date you entered this world holds close to the struggles that you face, the strengths that you carry, and the freedom that you are searching for. Yeah. So hey dear listeners, welcome back to another powerful episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life. I'm your host by weekend. This is the show which is about practical ways to understand yourselves better and live with a poor clarity and peace. And today we are going deep into something that sounds practical mystical, but lands very practical. Like how your birthday might reveal the game plan that you have and that you kind of uh were born to play, right? We always try to uh sometimes you all uh become curious, like what exactly is there? Which direction I should be uh going into, right? So yeah, so all of that. So today joining me is our lovely guest. Please welcome Alexander and Vicky. So welcome to the show.

SPEAKER_02 1:47

Alec, thank you for having us. What a pleasure. Always a pleasure to be with you.

SPEAKER_01 1:52

Amazing exciting. It's great for us to talk with you again. Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 1:56

Amazing. I'm I'm really happy to have you here again. And yeah, I mean the topic is very, very great because that is the reason I I use this word curious, because in our life we are always curious that what's next? Why not this one? Kind of right. So, and who can better guide than you? So dear listeners, like before we get into the discussion, I'll quickly love to introduce with Alexandra and Vicky. So they guides in a system that maps I'd say life patterns, like uh to what they call the source cards. Yeah, the source cards helping people uh uh kind of recognize the repeating cycles and turn these struggles into a strategy. Yeah, so I'll not take much of a time. There are a lot of uh things to discuss with them, so welcome back again. Yeah, yeah, thank you. Amazing.

The Biggest Misconceptions About Birth Dates

SPEAKER_03 2:49

So this is to both of you, like like as I was saying, like most people hear their birth date, and they think that's astrology or kind of personality quiz. But you talk it about I mean it it as a kind of blueprint, like a game plan. So what is the biggest misconception here like people have when they first hear that their birth date would explain why certain kind of patterns keep showing up in their lives?

SPEAKER_00 3:38

That is the biggest that's the biggest misconception. Gosh, the the biggest misconception that people have there are many misconceptions.

SPEAKER_01 4:03

I'm not sure I can narrow it down to the biggest misconception.

SPEAKER_03 4:11

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 4:11

It depends on who we're talking to. If you're talking to a skeptic, rational, science-minded person, they just dismiss it as some kind of a horoscope, uh, you know, astrology, which they already dismiss anyway. Or is that you know, numerology, which they would already dismiss anyway. For people who are more open-minded, let's say, who are willing to investigate the mystery of life, who recognize that reality is far more than our brains can conceive, and so they allow for some novelty, some mystery to appear. For these types of people, the biggest misconception is that it's so simple. They're always wanting to make it more complicated, and they're used to you know, astrology or other systems which rely on precise time and place of birth, where in the source card you don't need that, you just need the numbers, the date, uh, and all you need is the month and the day. So it's a very simple system, and I think that's why sometimes people overlook it, because it's so simple. And they think, well, it can't be that much here because it's so simple. Meanwhile, simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. This was a you know a quote from Leonardo da Vinci, that the simpler you can make something, the more elegant it is, like Einstein's famous equation of E equals Mc squared. Such a simple equation that changed science completely. But I would say for and and you know, Avik, maybe you and your audience fall into this general category of those of us who are more open-minded. For us, and for me too, when I first found this system, I couldn't believe it was so simple and that it was based purely on the date of birth and it was all in the cards that way. It was it was hard for my brain to accept that it could be this simple.

SPEAKER_04 6:20

Wow. Exactly.

SPEAKER_02 6:25

I I I want to add that I mean just the whole concept of that and the original truth of it is that it's much more than a game that we play Jin Rummy and Bribes and Go Fish with is in and of itself a challenge. Right. So we're we're here to change people's perspective of the true meaning of the regular deck of 52 play cards.

SPEAKER_03 6:52

Exactly, exactly. You know, and and and definitely like as you said, and I I I think uh that's what a lot of us get stuck sometimes, right? I mean, if I'm not wrong, like uh we notice the patterns uh kind of same thing, maybe sometimes same argument, same feeling, blockage, everything. But uh we don't see it as a kind of information. And uh we just think that we are falling again and again. So definitely it's it's uh reframing as a blueprint, something definitely you can actually work with that ships, everything.

SPEAKER_01 7:31

So I think in general that's the hardest thing for human beings is to change their mind once they've made their mind up. And what Vicky is saying is very true that for all of us, I I think without exception, for all of us, we first encountered this deck of 52 playing cards as an object for idle games of chance. Whatever those games might be, it varies around the world. There's so many different games to play with this deck of cards. So all of us have first encountered it that way as a little gaming instrument. So to change our minds about it and to rethink it, that that might be the hardest thing of all for people.

SPEAKER_04 8:15

Exactly. Yeah. So uh yeah, please, please,

Seeing The Template Behind Your Patterns

SPEAKER_04 8:20

please. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 8:20

Well, I was gonna say, and you just you were talking about the repeating patterns that we experience. Like we just like, you know, repeat these, we have these patterns that keep happening to us in our lives. And we kind of just like, well, you know, can be like, well, that's just the way it is. But this template of these cards, because we do have a life path of cards, and that's all based on our date of birth, and it's all based on math. So there's a mathematical calculation in order to get your birth card and then your whole life pack of 13 plus cards. That those patterns are shown in the cards. So the template shows the patterns that we are playing out. So it can bring tremendous clarity to someone who is experiencing those patterns that you're talking about. And, you know, wow, this is why this keeps happening to me over and over and over. It's in my cards to play. Oh, now I have the awareness to really see the patterns in play and where it's coming from. And then I do believe it's easier to make different choices, you know, seeing the bigger picture template of what's happening.

SPEAKER_01 9:37

As soon as we realize it's not random and we realize that there is a pattern, even that in itself is empowering because we no longer feel hopeless and powerless. We see, oh, there are patterns in play. And in the moment of seeing the patterns, you realize you're not the patterns. It's like the age-old advice to meditate and watch your thoughts. If you are watching your thoughts, then you're not your thoughts, and that's freedom from your thoughts. That's the same idea. If you're able to notice the patterns for what they are that are repeating in your life, and if you're the one noticing them, then in that moment you're free of the patterns because you realize these are not me. I'm the one watching the patterns. And in that freedom, then you have the potential to make a different choice. And that's what we teach people is how to make a different choice to play your cards right, literally.

SPEAKER_04 10:38

Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 10:40

True. So so here one thing definitely.

The Saturn Card And Your Health

SPEAKER_03 10:44

So suppose if someone was listening right now and they are dealing with kind of chronic tension, like I mean anything, I mean tension, fatigue, uh something that won't won't shift uh no matter what they try. So how would they start to explore? Like whether it is connected to how they are navigating their life relationships. Or or like what do you say, their Saturn card energy, right? We always sometimes uh I mean we always stay in fear about Saturn, right? Like what will happen. So yeah.

SPEAKER_02 11:18

Yes, yes. So I as I mentioned, there are 13 plus cards in a life path. All those cards show a different aspect of our human being. And one of those cards is the Saturn card. Here is a correlation with astrology, there's a connection there, and it's all about life lessons and challenges. So that is a fabulous card to look at in one's life path, to learn about oneself and the challenges that the person is going through throughout their whole life. And when they learn to really play that card well, meaning utilize the energy to their benefit, right? That's playing the card well, playing the high side of the card, the positive aspects, really looking at the negative aspects and seeing how that plays out, making different choices. They actually can feel healthier and happier in their physical bodies because it affects our physicality, it affects our health. So I'm gonna give you myself as an example. I am born on June 12th.

SPEAKER_04 12:28

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 12:29

That means that my birth card is the five of diamonds. So I'm playing the life path of the five of diamonds. The five of diamonds is about being out of the box in what I value most in my life, bringing a fresh new perspective of something, which I'm doing right now about the regular deck of 52 playing cards. So that would be like, you know, not that everybody playing the five of diamonds needs to do that, but that would be me playing my cards well, you know, wanting to expand people's perspective on something. So in that life path, my Saturn card is the two of clubs. Two is about partnership, communication, you know, connecting, teamwork. Clubs represent the mind, and that's about communication and conversation. So, you know, mentally stimulating conversations. Now, a lot of my life I'd be very fearful of speaking what I thought. So all through school, I would never raise my hands. I would never want to say what I was really thinking. I had a lot of fear around confrontation. Um I would get, I don't know, annihilated, confronted if I actually said what I thought. So I had a lot of, it was, you know, challenge for me to really speak what my ideas, my concepts, what I think about something. Something's going on in the in the world, on the news. I'd be just quiet about it. I don't say one word about it. I just listen, you know. So that not saying what I think would affect my physical body. And I definitely had a lot of physical issues in my life, like holding and digestive issues and stomach issues and you know, things like that. And so as I learned my cards, I was like, oh, well, that makes a lot of sense that that would be my challenge. As I would start to communicate more and say what I think and let go of any fear around that I'll be confronted and things like that, I start to feel healthier in my physical body because my physical body feels more relaxed and more at peace. And I don't have like the digestive issues that I used to, because I'm playing the card well. I'm playing the energy pattern well. Another say one more thing, which I'm in for example is the fact that I'm even on this hot. That is an enormous example because I would be, oh God, no way. I'm fearful. And what if, you know, what if it doesn't go well, or what if I'm judged, or what if, you know, whatever, you know? And so overcoming that, being able to communicate, then I feel healthier and happier in myself, playing that energy well.

SPEAKER_01 15:25

I want to chime in as her husband because I see this very clearly. Yeah, that she will be brooding over something. And I know her well enough to know when she's holding something in and she's worrying about something, or even just reflecting on something. There's energy that she's holding, and I'll say to her, let's talk about it. You know, tell me what's going on. And as soon as she communicates what's happening for her, her whole energy relaxes. The whole energy shifts. And I'm empathic. I'm born to play the nine of hearts, so I feel things to the nines. So I'm empathic and I can feel her energy. And her whole energy shifts the moment she clears it out of her head and communicates what's going on for her.

Talk Therapy As Medicine

SPEAKER_01 16:15

In layman's terms, if we want to project this out into the kind of mainstream general understanding, what it means is that talk therapy would be Vicky's medicine. She would get her best health benefit by talking through whatever is going on for her. So seeing a counselor or psychologist or therapist would be the idea for her as what as the good medicine, as what would help her with her health. And it maybe is a little counterintuitive that if she's got a physical ailment in her body, that what's going to help her is to talk about it. That might not necessarily immediately connect in people's minds. But that's why it's so wonderful to have this ancient knowledge, to have this map, to have this toolkit, because we can see from a holistic perspective what's affecting what and what will benefit what. And we each have a Saturn card in our life path, so we know exactly what we need to do for our health and well-being. Doesn't mean we're gonna do it, but we know what it is.

SPEAKER_04 17:23

Exactly. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 17:24

We're still learning that lesson, maybe.

SPEAKER_03 17:29

Wow.

Reading Avik’s Cards And Money Anxiety

SPEAKER_03 17:30

So first of all, definitely I I also want to mention this. Like when I said about the Saturn's energy, I I I personally used to think that in Vedic astrology only it matters. But uh when I when I had read and heard uh from your part as well, I thought, no, no, something something definitely is there. We we need to look for it. Because because I am I am number three. So and I don't know, I mean it's I mean by birth date basically, it is 30th.

SPEAKER_00 18:04

Remind us of your birthday, yes.

SPEAKER_03 18:06

Yeah, so it's uh 30th of November.

SPEAKER_01 18:10

So Right. Yeah. So So it's a three of Hearts is your birth card, and so you have the life path of the Three of Hearts. Do you want to know your Saturn card?

SPEAKER_03 18:21

Nah, sure. Because that is that is I I mean, we always have that face when you hear this uh planet's name, like Saturn. Oh my god, and what will happen? So, yeah. Exactly.

SPEAKER_01 18:37

Oh, your Saturn card in your life path is the three of diamonds. It's another three. And the three is about marching to the beat of your own drum, going your own way, creating your own way. And diamonds represent the physical, material layers of our reality. And so you need to find your own way physically, materially, financially. And that means not worrying about your well-being or your finances that you won't be able to be successful or create your own way if you go your own way. The thing that will hurt your health the most is anxiety about money or anxiety about your physical well-being. So it'll it'll work on you from the inside out. Again, from a holistic perspective, you may get irrationally anxious or indecisive or worried about am I gonna make enough money? Am I gonna be physically safe? How's my physical health gonna be if I go this way? If I do create my own way, will everything work out? Will will all be well with me? And that irrational anxiety can paralyze you and it can make you physically sick.

SPEAKER_03 20:01

No, I mean what you just said is definitely I can relate to the areas definitely. But I believe deep looking into it will will definitely help. So I definitely separately on this for

Knowing The Cards Versus Living Them

SPEAKER_03 20:15

sure. Uh and and uh I mean I I definitely want to ask you one more thing. It's like uh what do you uh what do you tell someone like who is kind of afraid that even if they understand their blueprint, they're still going to mess it up. Like still going to fall back into the same traps.

SPEAKER_01 20:38

So do you mean somebody who has three of hearts as their birth card, the three of diamonds as their Saturn card?

SPEAKER_03 20:46

Yes, as an example, we can take it. Yeah, definitely.

SPEAKER_01 20:49

I'm I'm teasing a little bit because the way you even worded the question, it sounded like there was some fear or some anxiety that what if I don't get it right, and then will everything work out for me, which is what we had just said for your Saturn card. So I'm just teasing a little bit. But you're you're asking a very good question, which is the distinction between knowing your cards and playing them well. And knowing your cards, I can tell you in just a few minutes what they are. So can Vicky. We can tell you what they are, but honestly, it can take a lifetime to learn how to play them well.

SPEAKER_02 21:25

There's also you know, the aspect of really accepting the patterns that are in play and accepting oneself in those patterns. Because if we do fall backwards, I mean, I've had those moments many times where I will think I've overcome something and things are like going well, and there's synchronicities and things feel good. And then, you know, like I maybe I cr then I crash and I don't maybe feel good in my body. And then I've, you know, been hard on myself, like, oh, you know, why does this happen to me again? Some kind of repeating pattern. But to deny it, to try to push it away, to numb it out, to be like, no, I got to get back to where I was, you know, that is all resisting and resistance persists. So there is an acceptance that happens in the pattern. So if we have a pattern, it's like, okay, something is happening for me right now. It doesn't really feel good, but I accept this in this moment. This is a part of my experience. This is a part of me and how I'm feeling and honoring ourselves, honoring our feelings, accepting our feelings, loving. That's a form of loving ourselves, you know, to really accept ourselves. And as we do that, there's a softening that happens. And then that's when the actual shifts, you know, can happen, is when there's full acceptance, not of the actual, maybe not of like things that are happening to us. Like if something tragic happens, I'm not saying, oh, you know, you know, love that experience. It's not about that. It's about loving your response to that experience. So how can I love myself more by just loving all the things that are happening for me? And and I mean loving how I'm responding to the things that are happening, the feelings that I have about things when a recurring pattern happens.

SPEAKER_03 23:19

Amazing. Amazing.

Synchronicities Plus How To Find Yours

SPEAKER_03 23:21

And uh I know time is constrained, but still if you have to give one advice to the listeners, what type of people It's worth it to learn how to play your cards right.

SPEAKER_01 23:31

That's when the magic starts to happen on a regular basis in your life. You start to see the synchronicities, things start to line up for you, and you notice the magic. And then life is no longer as boring or as ordinary or as hopeless because you're noticing the patterns and noticing that things do line up in interesting, surprising ways when you focus on playing your cards right. That's when you put yourself in tune with life, literally.

SPEAKER_03 24:09

So, and if listeners wants to connect with you, what will the gate video next?

SPEAKER_02 24:15

So you can find us at thesourcecards.com is our website. You can go on the homepage, look up your plug in your birthday, and look up your first two cards to play and your life path. Start to get to know your cards and learn about them and and see the energy patterns on social media. We're at the source cards, TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram.

unknown 24:37

Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 24:38

Love it. So, dear listeners, what I'll do is I'll put all the links, details, everything into the show notes for easy reference. Just go check out like Vicki has already mentioned, go put your birth and you just check the cards. And I have to say, like Alexander and Vicky, thank you so much for bringing this work. Uh it's uh it's really, really great. And if I I believe we're definitely gonna solve a lot of queries of people today. And also, like dear listeners, like you came into this world with a map, I'd say. I mean, obviously there is some direction and everything. So you have been carrying it all along. So today's conversation was all about learning to read it and not as a kind of limitation, but as a kind of guide. So the patterns that you keep meeting are not the proof that you are stuck, they are the proof that they you are ready, ready to see, to shift, to play the game that you are born for. So take that with you. And with this, I have to say that this is your host ever again. This is Healthy Man Heline. Thank you so much for listening, and I will see you in the next one. Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_07 25:54

Thank you.

SPEAKER_01 25:54

Thank you, Avik.